Monthly Archives: April 2013

Talk of Weather

(Photo Credit: Wikipedia Commons)

Dear Readers,

Ah, the topic of weather.  Do you realize how much the discussion of this topic is part of our daily lives?  I don’t mean in terms of making plans or wearing clothes in accordance with the weather.  I’m talking about it in terms of how it is used as a means of connection and communication.  Whether (no pun intended) it be at the bank, grocery store, or park, the talk of weather is almost always the first, if not only, topic that is discussed.  This happens so often, so on point, and so expected that I sometimes have to stifle a chuckle when I overhear it being talked about or when someone discusses it with me.

So, now I ask “why?”  Why isn’t the talk of weather replaced with sports, politics, etc.?  Of course these other topics are discussed, but I seriously believe the weather to be the number one subject discussed among strangers.  I think it is because weather is something that everyone can agree on, relate to, connect with, and understand.  Think about it: We all live under the same sky.  We are all affected by this Godly, almost magical phenomenon called weather.  Isn’t it interesting how something that influences our lives in so many ways is something that can bring us all together, even for one moment?  As far as I know, people aren’t killing each other over disagreements on why the sky is blue and if there is really a pot of gold at the end of rainbows.  Because of this, the subject of weather also signifies safety.  I will say that it can get redundant at times.  I love to talk about sports, but I cannot stand talking about politics, and I still remember giving my 12th grade history teacher the death stare whenever he discussed it.  But if it means interacting with someone and connecting with them in some small way for a brief moment, the topic of weather is fine with me.

Peace and Love

Thank You for What You Do

Dear Readers,

“Thank you for what you do.”  This is often said to soldiers, doctors, and law enforcement, and an offer of thanks is of course greatly deserved.  But what about the teachers and educators?  How often are they thanked or acknowledged for what they do?  Some people actually believe that teaching is simply a job and that it is easy to do because teachers get summers off as well as vacations (would you prefer your kid to be in school all days of the year with no break?), and that those teaching elementary school children really have it easy.  And for those people, I ask you to first think about today’s generation of kids and teenagers.  Did you shudder?  Next, think about all of the greatest leaders in the world.  Weren’t they taught by teachers?  Finally, I want you to think about where you would be today if you had never been to school or received no form of education whatsoever.  The act of teaching is so pivotal and significant, from before, after, and during the days of Christ to eternity.  Teaching creates leaders, thinkers, and world-changers, it affects how we communicate with each other and how we conduct ourselves in society (see previous post).  Teaching gives, inspires, captures, invigorates, and so much more.  And so to the teachers and educators out there: Thank You.

I expand much more on this topic in my post “Teaching is Not a Career!  What?!

Peace and Love

All That I Needed To Know…

Oh, Readers, Readers, Readers:

Do you ever think to yourself “what is wrong with people these days?” or “whatever happened to manners?” or better yet: “what ever happened to common sense?”  I ask myself these questions almost everyday.  I’m sure you have noticed grown adults that do not cover their mouths when they sneeze or cough, or when they do, it’s in their palm, and they proceed to touch the grocery cart and other items.  Do you find yourself slowly turning into a germaphobe because of other people’s lack of common sense?  How about when you hold the door open for someone, and they don’t say “thank you.”  Really?  I don’t care if you don’t mean it, but for goodness sake, will common courtesy kill you?  Because I worked in retail, I had seen my share of customers that did not respond to me when I greeted them or wished them well.  I am always courteous and polite to strangers because of these experiences and simply because of my personality.  However, unfortunately for me, I expect the same in return.  You see, in this world, one is not always treated the way they treat others.  Oh well.  Perhaps it is because of this belief that manners and politeness in society are in a downward spiral: people feel like they may not receive kindness back, so they don’t give it- just a theory.  I truly find it hard to believe that some people do not do the most simplistic of things like saying “thank you” or offer a polite smile in greeting.  Don’t you think the world would be a much happier place if this was done more often?  Sometimes I seriously feel alone in believing this and that perhaps I’m the crazy one and everyone around me is sane.  Don’t you?  This topic is touched upon a bit more in my post “In Honor Of” and “To Be ‘Educated’ in Society.”

 Peace and Love

The Power of Language

(Photo Credit: Wikipedia Commons)

Dear Readers,

Language has always been a powerful weapon throughout time.  It was and still is used as a means of control and deception.  Think of European attempts of “civilization” and how the media tends to use certain phrases as opposed to others, for example.  The language that I want to focus on is of course English, American English to be exact.  There are not many people who truly understand the significance of speaking English, let alone the difficulty in learning it.  The fact that many who have been out of school for years have trouble differentiating “there,” “their” and “they’re” is proof enough of the English language’s complexity and difficulty.  And because of that, I honestly feel honored and blessed to posses the skill of writing, speaking and reading it.  It is also because of such that I find it shameful when those who do not posses such a skill are made fun of, or when people get irritated or even angry when English is not spoken or if someone knows very little.  I find this interesting because in other countries when a foreigner attempts to speak the native tongue, you will most likely find that the person is flattered and honored.  This is because language is a form of connection, and so an attempt by a foreigner to speak another language signifies their effort to build a bond and connect.  Why is it that some people here don’t feel that way?  Well, I believe that this is because for us, language represents change.  And many detest change.  Back in college, there was a class discussion on how students in a school recited the Pledge of Allegiance in Spanish.  This was of course to signify the ever growing impact of the Spanish language in America.  The professor discussed how many parents were upset and offended by this, and therefore asked the class how they felt.  Like me, the professor was slightly offended herself that people would even be uncomfortable with the representation of diversity in the country that preaches it so often, but nevertheless, she wanted to know what the class thought.  The majority of them actually believed that it was wrong, yet what stood out the most was that they couldn’t provide a valid explanation as to why they felt that way.  Some said it was because the Pledge of Allegiance is a representation of the country and so it was strange and uncomfortable to have it recited in another language…I’m sorry, what?  This once again brings me back to the statement that many say and act like this country is so accepting and open, and yet they unconsciously reveal the complete opposite.  I say “unconsciously” because I believe that they really didn’t know the significance of their words.  And this means even more considering that they were speaking from emotions that they felt deep down.  What is there to be offended about?  Shouldn’t parents be happy that their children are being educated on another language?  Shouldn’t we be jumping for joy that something that is so important to us is said in another language?  Is there a deeper fear of something that many are afraid to say out loud?  I think so.

I have lost count of the number of foreigners that I have met that know multiple tongues.  I will even go so far as to say that almost all of them knew at least two other languages.  I’m not talking about a couple words here and there, I’m talking about actually knowing another language.  And I am envious of them.  Why?  Let’s see, counting middle school, high school, and college I took french for six years, latin for three, and Italian for one.  Today I can only speak, read and write English. What about you? Is there not something wrong here?  I remember complimenting my English professor because she fluently knew French.  You know what she said?  “Oh, you students aren’t being educated properly.”  My jaw dropped, and I sulked back to my desk as I pondered the validity and significance of her statement.

There are so many people in other nations that are longing to learn the English language because of what it represents to them and the world.  Some of them believe that the language signifies power and prestige.  I cannot begin to count the numbers of ways that this is ironic, but I’ll let you do that.  Did you know that there is a multitude of Japanese and Korean singers and groups whose names and/or song titles are in English?  Did you also know that a chunk of their songs are in English or have English lyrics?  I have several Japanese and Korean songs on my ipod and 100% of them have English lyrics, a song title in English and/or a band name in English.  Language is used as a means to build the three Cs: Communication, Community and Connection.  Shouldn’t it be the same for us?

Peace and Love

%d bloggers like this: